Master your boundaries and watch your life expand

The reason my clients come to me not experiencing the life they most desire isn't that they're unworthy or incapable, it's more likely that they have their boundaries turned in the wrong direction.

This happens unconsciously but it keeps what they want out and what they don't want (feelings of overwhelm, self-doubt, and uncertainty) in, creating a metaphoric duststorm that keeps her from seeing clearly. Because so much is happening internally that needs her attention her energy is split between her internal triggers and the external reality. Therefore, she feels like she has no energy left when she thinks about "creating the life of her dreams". Instead, she continues to manage the situation she's in and tries to use the emotional tools she has available to keep "holding herself" through the same triggers over and over.

What she needs to understand is what energy is actually opposing her so she can begin using it to propel her instead of it holding her back.

I refer to this in my programs as the Awareness Phase.

For example, one of the most common situations I see with clients is that they want something new- a new job, relationship, or body- and yet they are almost paralyzed by "what do to next". It makes total sense because when we explore the lens through which she's been approaching the problem, her inner child is often the one asking the question.
It's not that she's doing it wrong, but of course, she feels small in comparison to the problem. What she needs is to bring the empowered masculine energy (her resourced, adult self) to the table. This instantly elevates the viewpoint and causes the child to shift from panic to adventure.

When this part of her feels calm, the next step seems clear and she feels confident she can take it which moves her toward her goal.

Without being able to see herself (in all her brilliance), the situation (from a vantage point of what's available), and which energy is keeping her from moving forward, she will continue to get triggered and feel stuck.

I have a course for women who have activated their masculine energy and are learning to master letting it support her (hello, boundaries) so she can EXPAND into the person she envisions living the life of her dreams.

Together, we will begin bringing your desires to life by defining what YOUR desire is and shifting your relationship to change so it is easier to let go of your current experience and allow your life to flow.

You will gain clarity about the exact ways you've been held back so you can approach your life with the courage needed (and available to the Empowered Feminine woman) to take the actions that move you forward.

In this 4 modules self-study content, you will be systematically shifting the relationships you have with Change (so your future fills you with excitement instead of anxiousness), Time (so you can enjoy the whole process), Discipline (so you can feel like the authority of your life and use your effort effectively), and Anger (so you can embody the passion you need as fuel to step into center stage as your own leading lady).

Along with content designed to bring awareness and new language to the parts of your psyche that have been sabotaging you, the group will meet for 90 min each week to facilitate the deep, energetic shifts so you can reclaim the energy that's been holding you back in a safe, supportive environment.

When a woman understands where her emotional energy has been "leaking" she naturally plugs the holes with new boundaries to retain the inner experience she is worthy of. These internal boundaries begin shifting how she shows up in her outer world and people notice she seems "brighter" or more peaceful. From this elevated, congruent space, she feels confident asking for what she needs because it's simply a reflection of how she feels about herself. It was never that she "had low self-worth", it was only that she was unaware of where her natural energy currents were needing to be reinforced so she could more easily direct her attention and action to get what she needs.

If you're ready to EXPAND the energetic quality of your presence so you can feel seen for who you are AND feel comfortable taking up space (asking for more than just what you need to survive) so you can experience the next level of self-confidence, I'd love for you to join us! We start June 1 and meet each Thursday evening at 6-7:30pm EST until July 6.

I see this happening all the time in my former clients. The natural byproduct of understanding where your boundaries have been inhibiting your Feminine energy from shining includes getting a new job, finding an empowered partner (and fast), feeling confident putting creative projects (that have been buried in the attic for years) out in the world, and being able to hold other peoples deep emotions without them taking you under, etc.

I used to think "queen energy" was feeling entitled to bubble baths and wearing dresses but it's actually embodying the fierceness to establish (and defend) the boundaries of your Queendom so you can continue to claim/care for/ and EXPAND what's yours by right. Join us so we can all shine brighter and practice being seen in all our brilliance together.